“When I was young - my very best friend was a gay Puerto Rican man 16 years my senior. He used to bring me to gay clubs. If I had not been a woman I would not have had so much fun. I could dance and groove and grind and wear the shortest dresses and the guys weren’t into me - they didn’t give me a hard time we just had fun. My friend and I had to be soulmates of some sort because when we first met I was five and he was 22. He watched out for me and we became best friends. He is gone now. He died of aids.” - Tobi Wright is in an interior designer. insightwright.com